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Divorce: How To Be in Control of Your Future

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One of the most pressing concerns for anyone going through a divorce is whether they can control their future or if it is left in the hands of someone else—like a judge. The answer largely depends on the approach you take during the divorce process. Understanding the different options for how you divorce can help you to make decisions about your future.

Litigation: The Court Decides

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When most people think about divorce, they immediately envision a courtroom, where a judge presides over the case and ultimately makes all the decisions for you and your spouse. This divorce process is known as litigation. While litigation is a common divorce method, it is also the one where you have the least control over the outcome.

In litigation, you and your spouse present your cases, and a judge makes the final decisions on issues like property division, child custody and spousal support. Although you may have opportunities to settle the case before it reaches the judge, once it does, you relinquish control. The judge, who does not know the intricacies of your life, will decide the outcome based on the law and the evidence presented. This can lead to decisions that neither party is entirely happy with, leaving your future in the hands of the court.

Mediation: A Middle Ground

Mediation offers a more collaborative approach compared to litigation. In mediation, you and your spouse work with a neutral third party—the mediator—to reach an agreement on various aspects of your divorce. The key advantage of mediation is that it allows you both to have a say in the final outcome.

However, mediation does not come with a binding agreement to stay out of court. If you and your spouse cannot reach an agreement during mediation, the next step could be litigation, putting your future back in the hands of a judge. While the mediation route offers more control than litigation, it still carries the risk of an unresolved dispute that could end up in court.

Collaborative Divorce: Maximum Control

If you are looking to maintain the most control over your future, a Collaborative Divorce is the best process. In choosing a Collaborative Divorce, you both agree at the outset to settle the divorce outside of court. This agreement is the cornerstone of the process, motivating you both to negotiate and find mutually acceptable solutions.

In the Collaborative Divorce process, you each set your goals, and the negotiations are geared towards trying to meet those goals. Because the process is designed to keep the case out of court, you are more likely to work together constructively. The final decisions are made by you and your spouse, not by a judge, giving you the highest degree of control over your future.

Choosing the Right Path

Ultimately, the control you have over your future in a divorce depends on the process you choose. Litigation offers the least control, where decisions are made by a judge. Mediation allows for more control, but there is still a possibility that unresolved issues could end up in court. Opting for a Collaborative Divorce, on the other hand, gives you the most control, as it is driven by mutual agreement and a commitment to stay out of court.

Understanding these options can empower you to choose the best path for your situation, helping you retain as much control as possible over your future during a divorce.

We invite you to contact the Law Firm of Anthony J. Diaz for further information on your family law needs.

Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124,
Winter Park, FL 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email An*****@************aw.com or visit www.AnthonyDiazLaw.com.

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How Emotions Can Make Divorce More Expensive

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During the turmoil of separating and divorcing your spouse, emotions can run high, often clouding judgment and leading to reactionary decisions. These emotional reactions can come at a significant financial cost, particularly in a litigated divorce.

When you allow your emotions to takeover, you may find yourself embroiled in costly legal battles. Take, for instance, when a heated argument escalates to the point of involving law enforcement. Suddenly, what could have been a straightforward divorce process morphs into a costly legal affair, with domestic violence charges or injunctions adding a hefty price tag to the proceedings. The financial toll of such emotional outbursts can be substantial, highlighting the critical need to keep emotions in check.

Collaborative Divorce Calms Emotions

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The Collaborative Divorce process is designed to mitigate the financial and emotional toll of traditional litigation. In a Collaborative Divorce, you and your spouse work together, with your respective attorneys and a team of neutral professionals to reach a mutually beneficial agreement outside the courtroom. This approach not only fosters open communication but also helps you and your spouse to manage your emotions, leading to more amicable and cost-effective outcomes.

The Collaborative Divorce process is uniquely equipped to handle the emotional complexities inherent in divorce. By incorporating mental health professionals into the team, Collaborative Divorce offers a holistic approach to managing emotions. These professionals act as facilitators, adept at identifying and addressing emotional roadblocks that may impede progress. Through breakout sessions and expert guidance, they help you to handle your emotions constructively, paving the way for productive discussions and informed decision-making.

Collaborative Divorce also provides a framework for addressing emotional challenges in real-time, preventing conflicts from spiraling out of control. By proactively addressing emotional concerns, Collaborative Divorce empowers you to make sound decisions, ultimately reducing the financial burden associated with prolonged legal battles.

In essence, emotions wield significant influence over the financial cost of divorce. Collaborative Divorce offers a pathway to mitigate these costs by fostering cooperation, managing emotions, and prioritizing peaceful resolutions. By embracing a collaborative approach, divorcing spouses can not only safeguard their financial well-being but also emerge from the process with dignity intact, ready to embark on a new chapter of their lives.

Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email an*****@************aw.com or visit anthonydiazlaw.com for more information.

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How Can I Keep My Divorce Private in Florida?

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Your divorce can become very public very quickly unless you decide that maintaining your privacy is a top priority. In Florida, public records often exposed in personal matters, so finding ways to keep a divorce confidential can be a complex task. However, there is hope for protecting your privacy when you choose to use the Collaborative Divorce process.  Collaborative Divorce offers a path where your personal details can remain shielded from the public eye.

 In most cases, divorce records, including financial affidavits and marital settlement agreements, become part of the public domain. This lack of privacy extends to various divorce scenarios, such as mediation’s, uncontested cases, or litigated cases, where sensitive information is laid bare for anyone to access.

However, the noteworthy exception found in Florida is the Collaborative Divorce process. Collaborative Divorce involves resolving issues amicably with the help of a collaborative team that includes attorneys, financial experts, and mental health professionals. What sets this process apart is the ability to bypass the filing of financial affidavits and detailed settlement agreements. Instead, the final judgment in a collaborative case remains basic, keeping private information out of the public records.

Collaborative Divorce introduces a layer of confidentiality by allowing you to file a notice indicating that your case is proceeding through the collaborative process. By doing so, the court is aware that the divorce will be handled a collaboratively leading to a more streamlined and confidential resolution. When cases are successfully resolved through collaboration, the court welcomes the omission of certain documents from public records, acknowledging the commitment to confidentiality.

In addition to streamlining court proceedings, the collaborative process offers private meetings exclusively with you, your spouse, and the collaborative team. These meetings remain confidential, shielded from public scrutiny, as outlined in the participation agreement signed by both of you. This agreement extends beyond physical meetings, covering all correspondence related to the divorce, ensuring that discussions and decisions stay within the confines of the collaborative process.

In essence, the Collaborative Divorce emerges as the optimal choice for those seeking to safeguard their privacy during a divorce in Florida. Simply put, “What happens in a Collaborative Divorce stays in a Collaborative Divorce.” By choosing collaboration, you  can navigate the divorce journey with the assurance that your personal affairs remain shielded from public exposure, providing a true sense of privacy during an otherwise challenging time.

Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email an*****@************aw.com or visit anthonydiazlaw.com for more information.

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What Is A Child-Centered Divorce?

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January marks the observance of Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month. This prompts the opportunity for reflection. It’s crucial to focus on children’s well-being during divorce challenges. Let’s examine the importance of adopting a child-centered approach to divorce. A child-centered divorce requires conscious consideration of every decision made during the divorce process. As parents, you must consider how a choice related to housing, financial arrangements, or other aspects might impact their children. This approach keeps the children at the center of the divorce. They belong there.

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We advise that you should not discuss the process and progress of the divorce with your children. This will protect them from unnecessary anxiety. This simple guideline is often overlooked. But it fosters an environment where children can feel safe and secure. It also minimizes the negative emotional toll of the divorce.

The utilization of child specialists is a valuable resource. It is especially helpful when conflicts arise regarding parenting styles, time-sharing, or religious upbringing. These specialists act as mediators. They help discussions between you and your spouse and in mitigating conflicts. They also prioritize the best interests of the child.

Consider using physical symbols. For example, during a Collaborative Divorce conference, place a picture of the children at the center of the table. This serves as a tangible reminder of the primary focus. This simple yet powerful gesture serves as a visual cue. It helps you stay on track. You can resist getting entangled in emotional conflicts that may divert attention from the children’s needs.

The long-term impact of a child-centered divorce is profound. When children see their parents handle emotional conflicts maturely and without involving them, they are more likely to become emotionally resilient adults. Such children, having observed positive conflict resolution models, are less inclined to take sides and are better equipped to manage conflicts in their own relationships later in life.

A child-centered divorce isn’t just about the immediate well-being of the children involved; it’s an investment in their future emotional health. It also helps cultivate skills essential for building successful relationships as they navigate adulthood. It’s a powerful reminder that divorcing parents have the opportunity to shape not only their own destinies but also the future of the next generation.

Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email an*****@************aw.com or visit anthonydiazlaw.com for more information.

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Why I Believe in The Collaborative Divorce Process

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The Collaborative Divorce process has many advantages for the divorcing couple and for the family. Collaborative Divorce places the power in the hands of you and your spouse allowing you to shape the outcome of your divorce.

Empowering Couples

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Collaborative Divorce stresses the importance of giving you and your spouse the ability to determine the course of your divorce. By choosing the Collaborative Divorce process, you actively participate in creating a mutually agreeable resolution rather than leaving your fate in the hands of a judge.

Professional Support

Collaborative Divorce involves a team of trained and experienced divorce professionals who work alongside you and your spouse. This support network, including attorneys, financial experts, and therapists help facilitate the process and ensure that both you and your spouse’s interests are represented. This added layer of guidance is instrumental in managing even the most complex cases.

Avoiding Courtroom Drama

In a divorce, going to court should be the last resort. Too often, people rush to the courthouse and begin a litigated divorce process without exploring alternative options. Collaborative Divorce is an effective means for staying out of the courtroom, for reducing stress, and for minimizing unnecessary legal expenses.

A Satisfying Resolution

One of the most significant differences between Collaborative Divorce and the litigated divorce process is the level of satisfaction at the end of the case. In court, you and your spouse are forced to adhere to decisions made by a judge, which may not align with your individual needs or preferences. This often leads to frustration, dissatisfaction, and ongoing legal battles.

In contrast, the Collaborative Divorce process empowers you to create an agreement that you are both more likely to be satisfied with. As a result, cases resolved through collaboration tend to have closure, with minimal need for future legal interventions.

Private and Confidential

One of the most important benefits of the Collaborative Divorce process is that it protects your privacy. Litigation involves all your dirty laundry being aired in public during any court hearings. In addition, all of your financial records are part of the public record and easily accessible.The Collaborative Divorce process is a series of private meetings held behind closed doors in which the divorce professionals are bound by a confidentiality provision in the collaborative agreement. Respecting your privacy and keeping all records and discussions private is one of the hallmarks of Collaborative Divorce.

Minimizing Ongoing Conflict

One of the most common issues in litigated divorces is the ongoing cycle of needing to return to court due to disputes over the original court order. This process can be emotionally and financially draining and often impacts your children as well. Collaborative Divorce significantly reduces the likelihood of revisiting legal disputes and creating a more stable and peaceful post-divorce environment.

A Better Outcome

Ultimately, Collaborative Divorce is one of the best out-of-court options for resolving family law cases. While there are other alternative methods, the Collaborative Divorce process offers a well-rounded approach that caters to a wide range of cases. It ensures that you and your spouse receive professional guidance, maintain control over the outcome, and find satisfaction in the divorce resolution.

The Collaborative Divorce process stands out as an effective and rewarding approach to a divorce case, emphasizing cooperation, satisfaction, and peace of mind. It’s not just about avoiding the courtroom; it’s about creating a positive and constructive path forward in the challenging process of divorce.

Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email an*****@************aw.com or visit anthonydiazlaw.com for more information.

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The Search is Over

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When people are contemplating or actually in the midst of a divorce, it is very common for them to feel lost. The world they once knew and was comfortable with has now been sent into a spiral with no end in sight. Both men and women experience this differently however the common denominator is the search for something certain, a sense of calmness amidst the storm crashing through the end of their marriage, a feeling of control over the outcome and the future which seems so unreachable.

I have attached a great article about an actual collaborative divorce in the Tampa Bay area of Florida. The couple’s testimonial about the process was so overwhelmingly positive, they have remained friends. This real life story accentuates the positives using the Collaborative Process as an alternative to traditional divorce litigation. The process usually takes no more than a few months instead of potentially years, the cost is a fraction of the fees incurred going to court and the benefit of a kinder, gentler divorce especially with children is priceless.

Instead of always reaching, be open to the world of possibilities with Collaborative Divorce. Please call my office to find out more about how to divorce with dignity and understanding with a process that is easy. What you see is real and will last forever, the search is over.

This process works, this process is for you, this is Collaborative Divorce!
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Anthony J. Diaz is an experienced family law attorney focusing on Mediation and Collaborative Divorce. His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave Suite #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3720 Suntree Blvd., Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32940.

You may contact Anthony Diaz by calling 407-212-7807 or by email an*****@************aw.com or visit anthonydiazlaw.com for more information.

And if you found this article helpful, please leave us a review HERE.