1. Make a Summer Plan Together
Start with a shared calendar and open communication. Talk through travel, camps, family visits, and downtime. Agreeing on the summer schedule in advance reduces surprises—and stress. Kids feel secure when they know what’s coming next and see both parents working as a team.
Peacemaker Tip: Use co-parenting apps to coordinate plans in writing. It builds clarity and avoids last-minute misunderstandings.
2. Keep Routines With a Relaxed Spirit
Summer should be fun, but children still need structure. Mealtimes, bedtimes, and screen-time guidelines should stay consistent across both homes when possible. It creates comfort and stability during a season full of change.
Peacemaker Tip: Flexibility is key—balance routine with the spontaneity of summer joy.
3. Cheer Each Other On From Afar
When your co-parent takes the kids on a trip or celebrates a birthday, encourage your children to enjoy it fully. Support their joy without jealousy. Children shouldn’t feel torn about where they’re having fun.
Peacemaker Tip: A simple “That sounds like a great time!” goes a long way in helping your child feel safe and loved in both homes.
4. Share the Load, Not the Stress
Work together on summer expenses—camp fees, extra childcare, or outings. Having a clear financial plan prevents resentment and models responsible teamwork for your kids.
Peacemaker Tip: Frame money talks around the question: What’s best for the kids this summer?
5. Make Space for Their Memories
Let children tell you stories from their other home without judgment or interrogation. Listen with joy, not tension. They need to feel free to love both parents openly.
Peacemaker Reminder: Your peaceful presence allows your children to be their whole selves—with you, and with your co-parent.
Mr. Diaz is dedicated to his work helping clients with complex family issues by using collaborative practices to reach peaceful agreements.
His offices are located at 2431 Aloma Ave. #124, Winter Park, FL. 32792 and 3270 Suntree Blvd. Suite 103G, Melbourne, FL. 32920.
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